When you are looking at yourself in the mirror, what is the first thing that crosses your mind? Do you rush to point out all of your flaws, or do you comment on how great you look? Many people today, especially women and teenage girls, are constantly bashing themselves and their bodies. Telling yourself things like, "I'm not good enough, smart enough, or pretty enough can and will eventually take a toll on your self-confidence, deteriorating it little by little. Instead of bringing yourself down all the time, you should look for the good things about yourself. I have a challenge for you. Whenever you look in the mirror this week, find at least two things you like about yourself and compliment yourself on it. Say something like "I have such beautiful green eyes" or, "I love my smile", anything that will build your self-confidence up and divert you from thinking about your "flaws". Everyone is beautiful in their own way, whether you believe it or not, so there's always something you can find to like about yourself. Self-talk can have a really great impact on your self-esteem and confidence. You can either abuse it or use it to your advantage. I hope you will use it in the way nature intended, bringing yourself up, and making yourself feel all around better about yourself and your life. What kinds of things will you say to yourself this week? I hope it's positive!
~Ashley
Quote of the Day: “If you celebrate your differentness, the world will, too. It believes exactly what you tell it—through the words you use to describe yourself, the actions you take to care for yourself, and the choices you make to express yourself. Tell the world you are one-of-a-kind creation who came here to experience wonder and spread joy. Expect to be accommodated.”
― Victoria Moran
Click here to view nine ways to silence you inner-critic.
Works Cited: Starecheski, Laura. "Why Saying Is Believing - The Science Of Self-Talk." NPR. NPR, 7 Oct. 2014. Web. 26 Oct. 2014.
Original Website: http://www.npr.org/blogs/health/2014/10/07/353292408/why-saying-is-believing-the-science-of-self-talk

